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I woke up over 40 and realized I needed to do something different…..

Written by Sherron Barnhill

June 17, 2025

 This is a topic rarely mentioned or talked about openly. Many of these conversations are often had with a trusted friend circle, supportive family members or even carried around as an inward thought quickly dissipated by unbelief or the impossibility of doing such a drastic thing. The dilemma is the current level of security and the fear of traveling the unknown road. However, nowadays with social media, so many narratives are written, ideas of possibilities are being proposed but the truth is that it all seems like a conglomeration of enticement to buy a “dream” or possibility that may not turn out so great for you. Well if this about sums up a journey you have been on for some time, keep reading!

I find it very amusing that many women have been 40 before now but somewhere information seems to have gotten lost from generation to generation on how to live and make decisions that will set you up for future success. This information is so important and can change one’s life completely and set up young families to replicate a generational model of wealth. Not just wealth in money, but mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional wealth! When information is not shared or gets lost in the shuffle, problems find themselves traveling through generations, with no adequate strategies or solutions on how to eliminate them and unfortunately, this leaves the younger generations at a deficit.

I am one who always looks at the root of a thing, meaning how a problem started and what to do for it not to reoccur. In short, I would probably be called a solutionist! “Solutionist” may have a nice ring to it, but trust me, you are not often liked for having this trait because many people have a hard time with you dissecting something apart and uprooting what doesn’t belong, without feeling attacked personally. But I learned very early that business is not something that should be dealt with emotionally or taken personally! However, as a solutionist and consultant, I not only discover what’s not working, but I provide the strategies and solutions on how to correct it while guiding you through the process.

Many of you may find yourself at this stage. Looking at a mountain of things that you perceive you should have done differently and if you knew then what you know now things would have been different for you or you may be saying the classic, “it’s too late now”.

If this is you, I want to ask you a few questions, what measuring stick are you using? To whom are you comparing yourself? 

Lastly, what voices are you actively listening to? The company that you keep matters! Sometimes you have to make the decision to do something that you have never done without the people that you’ve always depended on the most to help you. Be willing to step outside of your environment and do something very different on your own and witness the transformation you will experience, the courage you will gain, and the confidence you will gain to boldly walk in your new season.

I want you to subscribe to my email list below and listen to my audio series on what you can do in the next 60 hours! Once you sign up, you will receive a link to the audio series to your email. Make sure to add contact@procaresolutionslc.com to your contact favorites so you never miss an email from us! 

As always, 

Believing the Best For Your Life, Business & Success!

Sherron

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